Melt the butter in a saucepan over low heat and stir in the sugar until it is dissolved completely. (I let it go until it just started to smoke, which is why my filling came out a bit darker, but I like that slightly bitter edge to a caramelized sugar)
In a small bowl, add milk to the cornstarch and stir.
Whisk the milk and cornstarch into the caramelized sugar, slowly bring it to a boil and simmer for 2 to 3 minutes, whisking continuously.
Whisk together the yolks and then add about 1/2 the hot milk mixture to the yolks (this warms them up) and then return the warmed yolks back to the pan and continue to cook for 2 to 3 minutes, until very thick and glossy.
Fill the pie crust with the filling and top with the banana coins.
To make the meringue Imen uses a French Meringue, which is very simple. Just beat the egg whites in a stand mixer fitted with a whisk attachment until they are foamy and then slowly sprinkle in the sugar, beating on medium high speed until the whites are stiff. This type of meringue requires baking for 30 minutes after you top the banoffee pie.
I used a Swiss meringue instead, which doesn't require baking and gives me an excuse to use my blow torch! And, I love my blow torch.